Monday, September 19, 2011

A Hungry Child Can't Wait: Let's Change History


 

Guest Blogger: Sarah Lenssen from #Ask5for5
Family photos by Mike Fiechtner Photography

Thank you (The Berry Family Blog) and 150 other bloggers from around the world for allowing me to share a story with you today.

A hungry child in East Africa can't wait. Her hunger consumes her while we decide if we'll respond and save her life. In Somalia, children are stumbling along for days, even weeks, on dangerous roads and with empty stomachs in search of food and water. Their crops failed for the third year in a row. All their animals died. They lost everything. Thousands are dying along the road before they find help in refugee camps. 

At my house, when my three children are hungry, they wait minutes for food, maybe an hour if dinner is approaching. Children affected by the food crisis in in Ethiopia, Kenya, and Somalia aren't so lucky. Did you know that the worst drought in 60 years is ravaging whole countries right now, as you read this? Famine, a term not used lightly, has been declared in Somalia. This is the world's first famine in 20 years.12.4 million people are in need of emergency assistance and over 29,000 children have died in the last three months alone. A child is dying every 5 minutes. It it estimated that 750,000 people could die before this famine is over. Take a moment and let that settle in.

The media plays a major role in disasters. They have the power to draw the attention of society to respond--or not. Unfortunately, this horrific disaster has become merely a footnote in most national media outlets. News of the U.S. national debt squabble and the latest celebrity's baby bump dominate headlines. That is why I am inspired that nearly 150 bloggers from all over the world are joining together today to make their own headlines; to share the urgent need of the almost forgotten with their blog readers. Humans have the capacity to care deeply for those who are suffering, but in a situation like this when the numbers are too huge to grasp and the people so far away, we often feel like the little we can do will be a drop in the ocean, and don't do anything at all.

When news of the famine first hit the news in late July, I selfishly avoided it. I didn't want to read about it or hear about it because I knew I would feel overwhelmed and uncomfortable. I wanted to protect myself. I knew I would need to do something if I knew what was really happening. You see, this food crisis is personal. I have a 4-year-old son and a 1 yr-old daughter who were adopted from Ethiopia and born in regions now affected by the drought. If my children still lived in their home villages, they would be two of the 12.4 million. My children: extremely hungry and malnourished? Gulp. I think any one of us would do anything we could for our hungry child. But would you do something for another mother's hungry child?


My friend and World Vision staffer, Jon Warren, was recently in Dadaab Refugee Camp in Kenya--the largest refugee camp in the world with over 400,000 people. He told me the story of Isnino Siyat, 22, a mother who walked for 10 days and nights with her husband, 1 yr-old-baby, Suleiman, and 4 yr.-old son Adan Hussein, fleeing the drought in Somalia. When she arrived at Dadaab, she built the family a shelter with borrowed materials while carrying her baby on her back. Even her dress is borrowed. As she sat in the shelter on her second night in camp she told Jon, "I left because of hunger. It is a very horrible drought which finished both our livestock and our farm." The family lost their 5 cows and 10 goats one by one over 3 months, as grazing lands dried up. "We don't have enough food now...our food is finished. I am really worried about the future of my children and myself if the situation continues."



Will you help a child like Baby Suleiman? Ask5for5 is a dream built upon the belief that you will.

That something I knew I would need to do became a campaign called #Ask5for5 to raise awareness and funds for famine and drought victims. The concept is simple, give $5 and ask five of your friends to give $5, and then they each ask five of their friends to give $5 and so on--in nine generations of 5x5x5...we could raise $2.4 Million! In one month, over 750 people have donated over $25,000! I set up a fundraiser at See Your Impact and 100% of the funds will go to World Vision, an organization that has been fighting hunger in the Horn of Africa for decades and will continue long after this famine has ended. Donations can multiply up to 5 times in impact by government grants to help provide emergency food, clean water, agricultural support, healthcare, and other vital assistance to children and families suffering in the Horn.

I need you to help me save lives. It's so so simple; here's what you need to do:

  1. Donate $5 or more on this page (http://seeyourimpact.org/members/ask5for5)
  2. Send an email to your friends and ask them to join us.
  3. Share #Ask5for5 on Facebook and Twitter!
I'm looking for another 100 bloggers to share this post on their blog during Social Media Week. Email me at ask5for5@gmail.com if you're interested in participating this week.

A hungry child doesn't wait. She doesn't wait for us to finish the other things on our to-do list, or get to it next month when we might have a little more money to give. She doesn't wait for us to decide if she's important enough to deserve a response. She will only wait as long as her weakened little body will hold on...please respond now and help save her life. Ask 5 for 5.

Thank you on behalf of all of those who will be helped--you are saving lives and changing history.


p.s. Please don't move on to the next website before you donate and email your friends right now. It only takes 5 minutes and just $5, and if you're life is busy like mine, you probably won't get back to it later. Let's not be a generation that ignores hundreds of thousands of starving people, instead let's leave a legacy of compassion. You have the opportunity to save a life today!

Sunday, September 11, 2011

6 Year Anniversary!


6 year anniversary gifts: iron, wood and candy.

Mat and I both jump in with eagerness when it comes to anniversary gifts and the special year requirements that we both have fun indulging in. It's always so fun to see what we both come up with. One of the gifts Mat received was a 4# bag of Iron Plus soil acidifier and one of my gifts were dark chocolate truffles. Some have humor and others have more of a sweet sentiment. Mat also follows the flower of each year and this year was the calla lilly, mine is a pot of beautiful green and yellow calla lillies. I hope I can plant them in a yard soon!

Our evening plans were a surprise to me. Mat loves to plan romantic dinners for us and I love the anticipation and always love the thought and sweetness he has put into the event. We had dinner at Sullivan's which is a very nice steakhouse downtown. This is where we went after our wedding reception... in my wedding dress and his tux. So, we have very special memories at this restaurant. We were greeted with "Happy Anniversary!" from every staff member we encountered. We were seated at a table with gorgeous fresh cut flowers just for me and promptly received a glass of champagne from the manager who also wished us a "Happy Anniversary!" Our server and other staff also knew of our story and it was a fun experience and of course the food was out of this world. I was swept off my feet.

Once we were done with dinner we headed over to The Cruise Room at the Oxford Hotel. I had not heard of this place before but it was magical. As soon as you walked in you were transported to a time in the past, it exemplified the 40's on a cruise ship. It was relatively small with no windows, art deco feel and bartenders decked out in proper black vests. Martini's were the drink of choice and we enjoyed one and got a fellow patron to take a quick picture of us (above).

I am so blessed to have a husband who is such a genuine man. His thoughtfulness, goofy attitude, sweetness, and loyalty in every situation always shines through. I know he is the most amazing husband and I already know he is the best dad. You are the best Maty. Love you PB! Smooches to you!

Special Moments

I have been rather absent from my blogging activities for quite some time. However, I can summarize what has been going on to catch you up. We have been staying busy and having fun.



  • Garage Sale to help with adoption expenses. My parents as supportive as ever came out to help. My Dad getting in fine and my Mom getting stuck at a random airport. It was pretty much an 18 hour trip for them. WE LOVE YOU GUYS!
  • Rapids game to watch our friend Brian Mullan play and share the fun times with Eric and our God son Jeremy.
  • Lots of running. Some bike rides. Lifting. Belly dancing for me.
  • Denver Oyster Race with our buddy Eric. An urban adventure race around downtown Denver on foot and bike. Solving clues and puzzles to find the location we needed to run or bike to. Numerous fun activities (only 3 examples) a cool dip in the pool at the Denver Athletic Club swimming relay style, the 3 of us hooked together at our wrists and searching through Coors Field baseball park looking for picture clues to get us to our next location and another memorable one...an obstacle course in the Pepsi Center parking lot- climbing over hay bales (Mat & Eric), dumpster diving (Mat & Eric), keg walking (me), turning over large tires, carrying sandbags and finally a slingshot to hit a bell (Eric). Running- approximately 8 miles. Biking approximately 10 miles. We finished in just over 3 hours and placed 6th in our group.
  • Pro Cycling Challenge. The race was all over the mountain cities in Colorado and ended in Denver. Racers included the 1st, 2nd and 3rd place men of the Tour de France. We stood on the side of the road on Speer Boulevard to see the amazing bikers. Lance Armstrong helped bring the race to Colorado. It was pretty amazing.
  • 30th Birthday party for Jon Graffam, other birthdays celebrated, Adam Rodriguez and Jason Boyd. Chatfield Reservoir for games, food and fun times on the boat. We did some swimming and enjoyed the surprisingly quiet water over Labor Day weekend. Jeremy did not get in to swim with us off of the boat but was more comfortable on the shore where I took him in and got wet up to his belly. Yay!
  • Overnight with Jeremy and a trip to the park to play on the playground and run around and play soccer with me, Mat and Momus (nanny fam dog we occasionally take care of).
Picture Time!

Oyster Race







"Take a picture of each team member doing a different yoga pose."

"Take a picture of each team member wearing their clothes inside out."

"Take a picture of 3 team members with only 2 legs on the ground."


Soccer Game!




Professional Bike Race!



Our umbrella was on television 6 times.